'Dad Matters' - a project to support new fathers in Elmbridge

Being a new dad can be exciting, but also stressful and overwhelming. Many fathers struggle with their mental health during this transition, especially if they face additional barriers such as isolation, poverty, or lack of family support. That’s why Home-Start Elmbridge, a charity that supports families with young children, launched ‘Dad Matters.’ The project aims to improve the wellbeing of new and expectant fathers and help them have the best possible relationship with their family.

Walton Charity awarded £10,000 for the initial pilot project, which started in 2023, in partnership with other Home-Start organisations in Surrey.

‘Dad Matters’ works in collaboration with the maternity services of Ashford & St Peter’s Hospital, filling a gap in the local area where there were no other initiatives supporting new dads. The project reaches out to fathers at their partner’s antenatal appointments, where 92% of dads are present, and invites them to join ‘Dad Chat’ groups. These are informal sessions where dads can share their feelings and concerns with other dads, away from their partners. The project also offers targeted ‘Dad Chats’ for those who need more support, such as those with mental health issues, those supporting mums with post-natal depression or those experiencing difficulties accessing services.

The pilot project has been a success, receiving positive feedback from the dads and the health professionals involved. The dads reported a closer bond with their baby, better access to services and improved emotional wellbeing. Health professionals are starting to recognise the need to support dads (which will in turn support the mother and child). Providing a holistic support for families.

Walton Charity has continued to support the project by awarding a further £10,000 grant to Home-Start Elmbridge to enable them to extend the ‘Dad Matters’ project’s reach and impact to make a difference to the lives of local dads and their families.